Children of Booze

Monday, January 29, 2007

Children of Booze Current mood: peaceful I didn't get around to blogging on Saturday, so this will be a longer one. I'm going to break up topics/days by ********************* so you can skip ahead to other sections if you'd like. Weekend starts Friday night with a few games of Beirut before heading with Julian, Cella and Sean to Ace Wasabi's. Once we get there, I'm pretty good, and in the hour long wait for the table, I get significantly better as Mike plys me with warm sake, which feels warm and kinda like baking bread in my stomach. I know that I should have baked one fewer loaf when I turn to two girls sitting next to us eating, and ask them which was the better portion of the dish they were eating...the avocados or the tomatoes. "Did you say tomatoes?" "yes..." "um, that's tuna..." I know that the sake was too much now because I just mistook a fish for a fruit. I stutter something about apologies, they laugh and tell me that the tuna was the best part of the dish. I hide my head in shame. We get seated and all I remember from dinner is that the philly roll was very good and we drank more sake. I thought about killing Julian because he kept handing me shots, but then realized that sadly, this was my choice and I better suck it up and shoot it. We leave Ace's and I spark a spliff, which is immediately a bad idea. Without my wits about me, and with no one else really paying attention, Julian pulls some trickeration and leads us all to City Tavern. I will say this...That was only the 3rd time this year that I've been there. If I can get away with only going to City Tavern 3 times a month, with two of those times being specifically to pre-party and leave, that's something I can handle. It ends up being a good night all in all as Miller, Wolfklain and others show up to share the festivities. *********************************************** Saturday I wake up and head to an Education Open House at USF for a program that joins a teacher credential with a masters degree. It seems like it might be solid for me, and I'd be able to continue working as I pursued it. I'll have to wait til after Track to think of that though (and track starts this week!!!) Then I hit Nini's for the gauntlet and follow it up with one of the better movies I've seen in at least the last year, if not longer. Children of Men. ************************************************ Now, I've heard some troubling things about Children of Men, namely people I know not thinking it was a very solid movie (Charles, Dawson, Alan obviously excluded)...and I need to wonder if people saw the same thing I did. I'm not going to spoil the movie for those of you that haven't seen it, so don't be afraid to read on. Let's start with the basics...a movie needs to take you to a place, mentally and emotionally. This movie is set in 2027, and while we can't know how realistic the vision portrayed will be, I can tell you that the setting and the way it was shot was incredibly realistic. You could feel the dirt, the blood, and more importantly for this movie, the constant feeling of fear. It would be one thing to fear for the characters, but this movie goes a step further and actually creates fear for the entire human race, not just in the movie, but in our current situations. With the premise the infertility of the entire human race, the movie exams questions of morality, economy, race, gender, ethnicity and faith. Britain has turned into the last superpower on earth, having done so only by eradicating much of civilians' freedoms and placing refugees and illegals into detention centers. This plot line felt like Japanese citizens in WWII, as well as suspiciously like current practices surrounding Muslims in the war on terror. (You're even given a few courtesy shots of British soldiers torturing detainees with Abu Ghraib tactics). You watch it, unsure how much of it could become real, and quite certain that none of it is completely out of the realm of possibility. You watch people, all from very different backgrounds and personal histories viewing the issues of the movie from different perspectives. What tops it all is that the movie doesn't seek to give you answers to these questions, or lead you in any direction. It simply poses them, tells the story and lets you deal with the aftermath. Children of Men is able to boast what only the best science fiction can....the use of futurescapes, projected "history" and a basic future premise to bring to light questions and ideals we must face currently in our culture and world as a whole. If anyone would like to discuss this movie with me, I'd be thrilled. *********************************************** After the movie, I feel like driving off a cliff because I have so much energy and so little hope for the immediate future of our country in the war on terror and other such nonsense. I chuck this feeling out the window and head to the city to meet with Damie, Charles and Brandon. Now, Brandon called me early in the day to ask me to come out for his cousin's birthday party at Cheesecake Factory and then Zebra Lounge. I tell him Cheesecake won't happen, but I'll meet them at the lounge. Luckily, Derek and Mamie's friend Goo is working bar, and he gets us past the line and past the cover charge, VIP style. He then serves us drinks at the upstairs bar where they haven't allowed people into yet. We're running the place, make no mistake. The crowd starts to pick up, the music as well, and before you know it, the upstairs looks like a cross between a high school dance, a college frat party and a Wild 94.9 street party. As I'm leaving the bathroom, Brandon calls me to tell me that there's a cover, they're not going there anymore, and can I meet him outside...I do, we hit a spliff around the corner (with cops EVERYWHERE), say hello to Zeke who's with him and then head back in. He heads back to his party at Velvet Lounge, nevermind the fact that I came out and sold everyone on the Zebra lounge idea because he was going to be there! We party some more in Zebra, get a few more cheap to free drinks and decide to head over to Velvet to hang out with Brandon and his crew. We make our way down to the front, get outside, and as we hit the sidewalk, Brandon calls to ask if Goo can hook his cousin up with free drinks at Zebra. I say, um, yea, he would have, but we're on our way to Velvet to see you guys. At which point he tells me that he and Zeke are on the way home already, and his cousin and her friends didn't like Velvet and had gone to Zebra. Now knowing that we're not tied to Brandon anymore, we decide to meet up with some of Mamie's friends at Fiddler's Green, which I had been to once before. For those that don't know, it's a very random place where the downstairs is a little quiet, live band, some dancing, bar and about 62 degrees. The upstairs is a packed dance floor bumping dj spun hip hop music that runs somewhere around tropical. Mamie, in typical fashion, has very attractive friends...we smoke more, drink long islands and take pictures with my camera (all of them up in the profile now) until it's time to go. At this point, we're in North Beach, around 2 am, and who's gonna find a cab? I do. I call Maurod the cabbie, and I'm not sure if I mentioned him previously, but believe I did in another blog. I get him on the phone, tell him where we are, and he says he'll be there in 5. He drives up, and Maurod is the baddest ass cabbie you've ever met. First he kicks a couple out of the cab because he was coming for us...(that feels VIP...sorry, that's MY cab you're in buddy!) and then we're two minutes in the drive and he says, "something smells good back there." I know what he's referring to, so I ask him if I should spark it, "yea, yea, spark it!" So here we are, Charles, Damie and myself, rolling with Maurod the French Cabbie through North Beach and downtown, blowing trees and listening to french hip hop. That's how we do it. He drops us off at Vic's where we meet up with Vic, his girlfriend, Alan, Simon and the rest of the Jewish Russian Mafia. Alan pours vodka shots down Charles throat until, at around 2:30, it's time to go and Charles can't get off the bathroom floor where he's made new friends with Phil's toilet bowl. This is where we leave him as Damie give me a cab ride to where I need to go. So there you have it...the weekend in all its gruesome glory. Don't get it twisted, unless, of course, you're trying to twist one up.

Anatomy of a Rape (Duke Lacrosse Players, Pt2)

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

Anatomy of a Rape (Duke Lacrosse Players Pt 2) Current mood: Right Back in April, I posted a blog (Duke Lacrosse Players, April 19, 2006) about what was going on and how it seemed a little strange how quickly everyone in the country jumped on the bandwagon in being absolutely positive that a heinous rape had occurred in North Carolina. As background: This rape was allegedly perpetrated by multiple members of the Duke Men's Lacrosse team on an exotic dancer that had performed at a party. Following the allegations, the firebrand speeches of Mike Nifong, the District Attorney in the case, brought the community in and around Duke to a fever pitch that resulted in demonstrations, racial divides and eventually grand jury indictments on rape, sexual assault and kidnapping charges against several players. These problems were amplified by the fact that there was continuous tension already between a rich, predominately white university that sat adjacent to a poor, mostly black community. In the months that have passed since, the case has fallen apart. The accuser changed parts of her story, all the DNA evidence came back negative and Mike Nifong is now facing charges himself that he hid evidence and made false statements in court about the case. As for the accuser...she had multiple different dna samples collected from her...none of them matched the team members she accused, nor any of the 46 players on the team. While the headlines about the rape and the indicted players splashed nationally, the only place I noticed an article about the DA getting charged was on ESPN. All the coverage created the damage, but once the case wasn't sensational anymore, the media dropped it, and for the school, lacrosse program, and the men charged, the damage has been done already. I noticed in the ESPN article a list of links to all of the articles that had been written about the case since the beginning. I was hoping the links would translate here, but they came out as text so you won't be able to read the full articles. However, read the arc of the headlines from start to finish, and you'll notice that not only were they not considered innocent until proven guilty, but a lot was destroyed in the process. Here is the link to the page with the list of links in case you actually want to read all of them. I will say that there's some mention in the final lines of the first blog where I mention the separation between church and state. You can ignore that line...on rereading the blog I realized that that had absolutely nothing to do with the case at hand, I was just off on a rant I guess. I'm glad to say that as the initial blog on this subject proves...for me on this story, hindsight wasn't 20/20...foresight was. Nifong...I wish I could have told you so. http://sports.espn.go.com/ncaa/news/story?id=2740966 Related Stories March '06: .. Coach resigns, season canceled .. Garber: Campus, community in turmoil April 06: .. Duke accuser involved in prior rape allegation .. Second dancer tells her story .. Alumni question Duke president on player suspensions .. Scoop Jackson: Blame administration .. Duke to keep selling lacrosse gear .. Background on Finnerty, Seligmann .. Two Duke players indicted .. Race a focal point in Durham .. Police: Accuser 'passed-out drunk' .. Whitlock: Men behaving badlyMay 06: .. Sweatbands of support: Duke women show solidarity .. Lawyers ask for more evidence .. Judge won't fast-track trial .. One of team's captains indicted .. Defense: DNA tests clear Duke lacrosse players .. Talks of accuser's credibility overheard .. Duke report: Police downplayed accuser .. DA wins Democratic primary .. Committee: Team can resume play, with monitoring June 06: .. Parents of Duke player say son can prove innocence .. Duke player reinstated .. Evans guilty of noise violation .. Police report: Duke accuser nervous, changed story .. Pessah: Team life after scandal .. Recruits: Staying Going .. Coach K breaks silence .. Defense questions DA's comments .. Duke professor calls for special prosecutor .. Second dancer calls allegations a 'crock' .. Interim coach ready .. Duke reinstates lacrosse team under watchful eye .. Almost $23K spent on DNA tests July: .. Duke hires Hofstra's Danowski as men's lax coach .. Judge: Prosecutor has access to uncharged players' addresses .. D.A. seeks access to uncharged players' ID cards August 06: .. AD: School 'will be better' .. Write-in campaign launched against prosecutor .. Former Duke coach hired by Bryant .. Duke player pleads guilty to DUI charge September .. D.A.: Assault lasted 5-10 minutes .. Duke reinstates exotic dancer ban .. D.A. asks judge to stop polling .. Duke holds private pep-talk for athletes .. Duke lacrosse returns to the field .. Judge to bar cameras from hearings October: .. Dancer: Duke rape accuser said to 'put marks on me' .. D.A. hasn't discussed case with accuser .. Duke lax coach: Players may return if exonerated .. Accused players thought DNA testing would end case .. Accused players, second dancer speak out .. Duke attorneys again ask for statements .. Duke lacrosse team back on field for charity event December: .. N.C. State Bar files complaint against prosecutor .. D.A. drops rape charges .. Legal experts: Why the remaining charges? .. Judge OKs paternity tests .. Report: Accuser is pregnant .. Defense attorneys: No Duke players' DNA found on woman .. Justice Department asked to investigate Duke case January: .. Nifong faces more ethics charges from state bar .. Nifong gets extension to answer complaint .. NAACP asks for thorough exam of case .. Prosecutor's future uncertain .. Attorney general takes over .. Prosecutor asks off case .. Defense: Accuser said one player just watched .. Judge orders paternity test .. Duke prez defends decision .. Ex-player sues over failing grade .. Lawyer: Players invited back to class

... (old)

Monday, January 22, 2007

...(old) Hmm...must get a title for this one. Sing it and swing it, From the jazzy guitar to the wailing trumpet, Wailing like a mad ass breeze on the 5, desolate wastelands and the Hope of more to come, just like it to leave the driving brainless and numbing, But fun for fumbing, and succumbing, I guess , To some weird wish to be alone in all of it, but surrounded with the sweet jazz. Liza's gone now, and some boxes of interstate and other things whoosh by, Or maybe they don't whoosh, But kind of fall behind, Like a lost minute I was thinking of this morning. It was in between a girl and I, It was where love fell an inch short, And I lost time. I lost a single minute of life, and it was sudden. The thin line between love and hate is a misnomer. It's the thin line between love and ex that's a kicker. Funny too, because the leap up is big. Possibly the one moment you can never lose. The biggest gap on the way up, and nothing on the way down. And then you fizzle. But with best friends, it's the opposite. You'll never remember the moment you became family to each other, because it's been there most of what you can remember. I've never had it happen, and hopefully I never will. I guess it can disappear, and when it reappears, it'll be there like it's always been. Like this guy I know. I didn't really know this guy, but what I did know of him, I didn't like. He was this lanky kid. Apparently, and without me knowing it, he had hated me for a number of years before I had hated him. I hooked up with his girlfriend. I didn't do it because I disliked him, but just because it was fun. It was hooking up. I didn't think he'd mind, it was 7th grade, or no, maybe 8th. At any rate, he took it as a personal affront. I hadn't meant it as a slap in the face, but some people take things different ways. Like Andy says, "If a girl will cheat on her boyfriend, he's not doing a very good job." A poor ideal, I think….but why does it sound so true? Cloud ballerina dancing over pearly white waves on the edge of the horizon, Flowery hand outstretched and a trail of sooty, Dark Clouds, Her exhauuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuust. That's fucking annoying isn't it…a stuck u button on your keyboard. But she's almost dissipated now, our ballerina, Gone in the struggling moments, and a failing u. But she gives way to a ying yang with crow's faces, the beaks as the opposing colors, with the eyes inset. And the sky leaking a thick paste of orange against cerulean, And a dismal coyote/roadrunner/wren alighting from the gray and floating closer, Faster, against the rest. Run coyote/roadrunner/wren, run like hell. Before your run ends, too. Now, I'm not sure about this one. It could either be a marathon racer, diving across the rope, Or the rope, In suspended boomerang fashion, Pulls her back to her partner, head thrown back in what must have been, At one point, the runners haze. Hmm…kinda rambly, kinda hazy, kinda happy, or sad, or melancholy. All juiced into one session of… Ah, yes. Cloud Watching, Or the funny feeling of doing it, Going home, or whatever else it takes you to fill a couple minute here and there, but really all is action because even sleeping, I'm doing. Get your head out of the futter! Doing this and that. If you were to die right now, would you rather be doing this… Or that? I think rather that, but are both an answer? Could you potentially be doing this AND that at the time of your demise? I hope so. This would give a nice maximum type of efficiency To end all efficiency. Like a certain group of born again pagans. They get to be pagan and born again their whole lives. Talk about some efficiency! But no, really… Cloud Watching August, 2001

New Blogs, Old Writings

New Blogs, Old Writings
Current mood: curious

I found an external hardrive of my dad's the other day that had a ton of old writings from years ago. I'll be posting them, serial novel style in blogs. I'll denote the old ones by putting (old) in the title so you don't have to waste your time opening them if you're only interested in the new stuff. Cheers.

Human Pinball

Sunday, January 21, 2007

Human Pinball Current mood: good That's right. I'm a human pinball. I thought my secret was safe, but it's out now. Shit. Don't tell anyone. My evening starts with......say it with me people.....beirut. But later this time, like 9. I get spun like a top by Julian who has managed to find his groove since Friday night. He's kinda like Stella in that regard. It's time to bounce and we're heading to Royale for his friends birthday party, with my plan to rendezvous with Derek and Mamie afterwards at Slide for a model send off. As we get there, Chris Reich comes out and I can't believe they let a guy like that in there. I almost left right then and there. But he convinced me that he wasn't so bad so I stuck around. I'm looking around, and I swear I see Cathy. Like, I'm positive that I see Cathy. I tell Julian this and he says, "you're too drunk. Cathy's not here." But damn, this girl looks just like Cathy. I yell out, "Hey! Cathy!" but don't get any response. Julian says, "You jack ass, I told you so." I pull out my phone, and call Cathy. I watch as this girl pulls out her phone and picks up. "Cathy. Turn around." She gets this confused look on her face and turns around. "You are not looking at me right now!" "Cathy, turn around. The other way." She finally sees me and comes over and I get to laugh at Julian for calling me the idiot. Like I don't know what Cathy looks like or something. We step outside to blaze (to which I drunkenly forget to invite Chris) and she tells me that she loves my blogs but that they're too long and she usually just skims for interesting tidbits. As you can tell, I've made her a character in this one so she'll have to read it to see if I talk shit. A tense moment passes as a police officer crawls by at about 5 mph, looking at us. I take another hit. They continue driving. I get to meet her boyfriend, which is nice. I've heard so much about this guy, finally putting face to name works. At this point, I know it's gotta be time to head to Slide, and sure enough, Derek calls me. However, instead of saying meet us over there, he tells me that Black Out Mamie is back in full effect and he has to take her home. So now I'm SOL on that plan, but remember that I'd been texting with Aliza before I got to Royale. She tells me to come down to Folsom and 8th and meet up with her, so I'm game (I'm not going to end up in the Marina, that's for damn sure). I get in the cab and tell him to take me to Folsom and 8th. He looks at me and says, "Why do you want to go there?" Now, I may be new to the whole cab game, but I don't think I've ever been asked what my intention was for going to an address. I want to ask him if he won't take me if I don't have a good enough reason. I tell him I'm trying to get to the Cat Club? I think that's what it's called. He looks at me again and goes, "but why would you want to go there?" I"m beginning to think he's playing some sort of joke on me, like when Mike drunkenly tried to convince the Cleveland cab driver to go pick up Sonya in San Francisco, insisting that he would pay him any amount of money. I tell him I'm meeting some friends and he says, "you might be the only guy there." I say, "there's a lot of girls?" "It's all girls." So I tell him..."Sounds like my kinda place!" and he goes, no no, it's a Lesbian bar. Now, Aliza hadn't mentioned this to me, but I mean, given the fact that I was going to meet Aliza, I did kinda figure that's where I was going, so I'm not all that shocked by this. He asks me, "do you still want to go?" "Dude, I've got people waiting there for me! Take me there." This is starting to get mildly annoying, but he gets me there without further ado, and sure enough, as I step out on the curb, I'm not seeing a whole lot of guys, which is cool, because I only like guys that I'm friends with anyways. One girl goes, "Are you in the right place?" to which I respond "That depends. Is this the Cat Club?" "yes." "Then I'm in the right place!" Thankfully, I find Tamara and Wendy out front smoking cigarettes, and Wendy, super cool as she is, walks right past the line and in, also courtesy of her hand stamp. Then she looks at me like, "come on, let's go!" like I can just walk past the line too. This doesn't feel right though, so I wait in line with Tamara who tells me that that's just the measure of Wendy's ultimate coolness. I really should be used to it already. We head inside and this place is tiiight! First off, it's huge. The ceilings are high, so even though there's a ton of people in it, it doesn't feel cramped. The crowd is amped and the variety of people is something only truly appreciated by someone who's into people watching and the connections of social interactions. I'm not the only guy. Which is cool, cause guys are chill. Wait, didn't that contradict something I said earlier? Gotta look into that...The place is split into two rooms, an 80s, dancy pop room, and a hip-hop room. The bartenders are fast and furious. Dancing, drinking and hilarity ensues. I get us outside for the ritualistic joint, which, as it did the other night starts putting people (and by people I mean Aliza) under the table. I actually get asked to walk a bit more away from the door, which is a first. But the bouncer didn't tell me to put it out. After we finish the joint, to my utmost delight, there's a hot dog vendor, SC style with the bacon wrapped, jalapenos and everything else on it. Between Wendy, T, Aliza, Jackie and myself I think we eat 6 or 7. Nightcap of champions. Cab ride home anyone?

The Evening I Was Gay

Saturday, January 20, 2007

The Evening I Was Gay Current mood: pleased 7pm rolls around on Friday evening, and, like other Friday evenings at 7, I begin drinking beer. Well, actually, I begin playing Beirut, which is kinda like drinking beer. Speaking of which, I need to get a new way to start my stories than, "We started playing Beirut." Ok. How about this? New start. I was playing Beirut with Julian. Shit. Nevermind. I will say I actually beat him. We head out to City Tavern at around 9. Now, for those of you that know, City Tavern is visited waaaaay to frequently. However, I've somehow managed to get this far into the new year and last night was only my second time there. And there's a new tactic now...instead of going there and staying there, I use it as an extended pre-party before I go elsewhere. Chris the bartender knows us and gives free drinks, so it works for this guy. Best moment from City is when Julian's friend looks and me and says, "everytime I see you two, you're always just a few steps ahead of everyone else." I tell him.... That's cause we start playing Beirut at 7. Worst moment of City is when I get a telephone call that I answer. I get asked a question and respond how I normally wouldn't because I'm a little tossed. I don't know if what I said was good, bad or neutral, but I do certainly wish I could pick apart the day and put the pieces back together my way, with that phone call not in it. I jump in the cab and head to Azul to meet Christina (funky straight hair and sassy dress), Brigid (backless top again!), Tamara (styishly styled in necktie as usual), Aliza (the prep look suits with the sweater) and a host of others. Hadn't been to this place before, but it's preeeetty preeettty prettty pretty good. I get there and everyone is housed already. This place is in an alley, big glass windows facing it, high ceilings, long bar. The music is steadily good. Aliza looks at me and says, "I was so high when you came over to Zena and Tiff's the other night." My response is that I know how we can duplicate that situation right now. We step outside, much to the dismay of some people I know, and manage to get away with smoking right in front of the bar. Don't ask me how I get away with this so frequently and so publicly, because I do not know. Aliza and T, still not used to what I carry, get fucking ripped. Again. At this point, I'm slurring and noticeably stumbling around (even to myself) and I notice Brigid and Christina walking down the street away from the bar in their coats. Um? Hello? Are you leaving? Apparently, they've decided to leave. I find out it's in order to meet someone at another bar that someone might have a certain interest in. I'm a bit incredulous...I don't think I can handle another bar right now. Tough shit I'm told. Get in the cab, I'm told. So I get in, and as we head across town, I'm told that because there's two guys where we're going, and they want Christina to look available for one of them so that they can run game on the other one. In order to do this, I'm informed that they've informed these two gentlemen that I'm their gay friend. Oh realllllly? Yes, really. They also kindly let me know that not only do I have to not flirt or appear interested in Christina, but I can't talk to other girls because that'll blow the whole story. So now, not only am I very drunk, very high, but I'm also preparing myself to appear uninterested in women, which, for me is difficult in any state, let alone a faded one. As we get to the bar, the two guys are outside waiting for us, shake my hand and immediately ignore me and start in on their two headed game. Honestly, two guys would never have done that if they thought I was straight. They would have shown a little tact. But no, I felt disrespected. I wanted to put my hand on Christina's breast and laugh at the fool who thought he was doing a good job flirting. But I held it down. I amused myself by taking pictures. And not looking at girls. And that is really hard. I was thanked afterwards for an excellent performance that exceeded expectations. I did break character a few times when I caught Christina in the bathroom line, but the chump didn't see, so it worked. I manage to once again remember my credit card, I don't lose anything, and I make it home in one piece. Now it's off to Nini's, and preparations begin to start over again this evening. I'd love to offer predictions, but with the night I just had, who knows.

Suck on THAT, Mr. Meter Maid!

Thursday, January 18, 2007

Suck on THAT! Mr. Meter Maid Current mood: ecstatic Start with 5 games classic Beirut. Add one game of a complete shut out over Cella. Mix with one cab ride to the Marina and you have the beginning of Taco Tuesday at Blue Light. Myself, Mike, Sonya, Julian hop over there, meet up with Brigid, Derek and Mamie. Morty shows up later and the night is a lot of cheap beer (with one foreigner asking me if 4 dollars was a normal price for a Beck's...homey, drink some Corona for 2) and quite a few puffs. I make a poor decision in secret telling. Then I compound it by actually believing them when someone tells me, "Don't worry, I won't tell, I'll act surprised." Yea, a day later, it's told! But hey. Do I blame the person in question? You bet your ass I don't. I blame me. And alcohol. And an unusually big mouth on the night in question. But it teaches a valuable lesson....what someone says they will do with information BEFORE they know what it is, and what they actually do once they have that information, are two different things. Granted, I probably should have learned this 15 years ago in preschool, but I guess I missed that day cutting class to go to a Giants game or something. Either way, the joke's on me. Mike and Sonya disappear early. Julian bounces after them, and Brigid is soon to follow. Morty, Damie and myself head outside for a few nice puffs before splitting ways. **************************************************** THIS PORTION OF THE NIGHT EDITED. FOR AUTHOR'S KNOWLEDGE ONLY. **************************************************** Sorry about that, but with new FCC regulations and the fact that this site is run by Fox, I don't know what's safe to put on here or not. I jump back in the cab after my stop and head back to Mike's. As he turns the corner, voila, there, behind my car, is the dreaded blinking yellow lights of the meter maid. I've forgotten that as soon as Tuesday ends, Wednesday begins, and when that happens on the street behind Cella's house, it becomes street sweeping and illegal to park there. I got a ticket for this last week, but as with the secret/preschool lesson, I guess I missed this one too. I throw money at the cab driver and run up, getting my best face on to try to persuade the Meter Maid that indeed, a ticket isn't necessary, but rather just plain mean! I get to the car, and there's no ticket. I peak in the meter maid car and he's.....passed out, sleeping on the steering wheel!!! I silently unlock my car, get in, start the engine and drive away in one move. He wakes up and follows, but he knows that his time to ticket me has come and gone. That'll teach him to fall asleep on the job. Coming soon: Weekend Debauchery.

The Night We Got Ditched

Tuesday, January 16, 2007

The Night We Got Ditched Current mood: peaceful Last Friday night, it's time to go out. Mike and Sonya are having couple movie night at the apartment, so it's up to Julian and I to wreak the appropriate havoc. We start with the usual, and it's then that Julian tells me that he hasn't been to the Marina all year and very much wants to go. I'm not excited about it, but figure, hey, it's not that much of a sacrifice, and if we go early, we can leave and go elsewhere (in the back of my mind I'm thinking Med Jool, which is where Victor and Alan are celebrating Victor's girlfriends' friend's birthday party. Say that three times fast.)...but I know it might be a struggle considering that Med Jool was the site of Rex's last outbreak. We head to City Tavern and you would think Julian was some long lost hero returning home to collect his bounty. The bartenders asking where he's been, pouring shots, the waitresses hugging him and asking about his New Year's. We're there at 9 on a Friday, so it's pretty empty out there, but in my mind we didn't come for the crowd. For a while, Julian is on me to play wingman, but I'm just not feeling it. Then, the bartenders get him so drunk off shots that he doesn't remember to ask me, which helps relief wash over me. I have a few washington apples. Probably the most girly shot available, but that means I'm able to take them, which is a good thing. We're ready to leave and Brigid shows up. She literally scares the shit out of me when I turn around and do a double take, not sure that it's really her. We tell her we're leaving and she jumps in the cab with us (she loves Med Jool)... It's about midway through the cab ride, somewhere on Van Ness, that Julian starts having doubts about returning to the club that hosted one of the least favorite nights of his life. He expresses this, and Brigid, immediately afraid that she's going to have to come with me alone to Med Jool, jumps out of the cab at a red light, and gets in one behind us to go home. We get to Med Jool and I get Julian up to the front door. "Ten dollar cover, and you can't wear your hat," the bouncer tells me. Julian starts to waver and I tell him, "Julian, the cab's right there. You can get back in it, no harm no foul." I don't need to tell him twice, he's already back in the cab. Inside, I rush up to the roof where I'm sure Alan, Victor and the rest are burning a few trees. I get all the way to the top, come exploding onto the roof to find.....it's empty, dark and there's no one there. I go back down (making sure to take my Kangol off when there's a security guard around, promptly putting it back on when they leave), and find Alan, Victor, Mark Zaba, Steve Messing and Mike Sefanov on the dance floor with Alla and her friends. Dancing, drinking and debauchery ensue until the club closes and we're flushed into the street. Once out, it's food time, so we hit Taqueria Cancun, which is amazing...either because it's amazing or because we're drunk as fuck. We get out, and this is when the night gets interesting....we're walking to the car and I pull out a joint...we start smoking it, and all of a sudden Vic's girl Alla gets pissed. I can't really tell what it's about though, considering that I find it impossible that she got mad at Victor of all people for smoking. I mean, c'mon, he's a daily smoker, how can his girlfriend be pissed when he smokes, right? Well, she is...and we get to her car, she unlocks the door, gets in and drives off. Huh? She drives off. What? (you're thinking) She drives off. We're stunned for a few minutes, and then, voila, she drives back around the block and stops about a half block from us. Awesome. She came back. Actually, she came back just to let her three girlfriends in the car. They get in and she takes off, for good this time. We were supposed to be going back to Vic's, Vic, myself, Alan and the four girls. Instead, we find ourselves stranded in the middle of the Mission. We cab back to Vic's, and I wake up in my sweatpants at Mike's place. At this point, in the morning, on Mike's couch, I know what had to happen...we smoked at Vic's place, I decided it was time to go, took off and walked back to Mike's place. I get off the couch to put my jeans on to find Victor's wireless computer mouse in my pocket. If anyone has a decent guess as to why I might have taken that particular piece of electronics, do enlighten me. I get back to Vic's to return the mouse and Alan informs me that indeed, I have it all wrong...Charles showed up, after I was incoherent, and drove me back to Mike's...none of it, obviously, anything I remember. So I decide to cure my hangover by buying a new digital camera. The End.

Call Me Troll, Bitch

Monday, January 08, 2007

Call Me Troll, Bitch! Current mood: pleased So y'all have to go see Nikki! Nikki is rad, Nikki is awesome, and Nikki will play any song you want. My weekend starts on Thursday night with Christina, Brigid and Julian at Foley's in Downtown. This place is a sweet Irish pub that reminds a bit of a diner with the way different portions are partitioned off. Nikki is probably around 40, a MTF transitioner who can sing in a lady's or a man's voice and has a catalog of about 8,000 songs. Over the course of the evening she plays Moondance, Ring of Fire, Horse with No Name and some other bombastic favorites. The night goes downhill when someone orders us shots of Rumplestiltskins. At least, that's what we all hear. We down the shots and are immediately knocked flat by the raw alcohol flavor and minty aftertaste. I'm impressed that I was even able to shoot it, but then have to spend about five minutes over the toilet convincing my stomach that it's not an incompatible transplant and that it should let the shot stay. I win. Of course, it's only later that we find out that this wasn't some fun shot called a Rumplestiltskin. Noooooo...these were shots of Rumpleminze. Toootally different. For those of you that have never had it, you can check this out... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rumpleminze Not a good idea. Brigid starts going crazy, Christina falls down promptly upon leaving the bar, and I get to drive all three of them home as Julian cusses me out from the backseat about why the fuck would I possibly think of allowing him to drink that shot. I have no good answer. Friday night is interesting. After Charles, Albert and others bail from Julian's, he, myself, Mike and Sonya go to celebrate Sonya's birthday. I'd get into how weird it was that we were the only three celebrating with her, but I think it's somewhat obvious! She wants to go to Impala in North Beach, so we head out there and I pick up the five dollar cover for the group. Really, 5 bucks for a cover isn't all that bad in my opinion. Keep this in mind as it comes into play later. We get in and the crowd is pretty solid (though moreso downstairs where it costs like 300 bucks to go), and we set about the task of getting Sonya drunk. It's all shots for her, and while I thought I was in good shape, the way I react to the first red bull vodka tells me otherwise. I decide it's time for my first joint of the evening. I walk to the front door and the lady stops me and says, "there's no in and outs. If you leave you'll have to pay the cover again." "Really?" (big flirting smile on my face here) "Really." (not amused or flirting back) "But I just need to go outside for a bit." (less of a smile this time) "What for?" "To smoke." "Sir, we have a smoking patio right out there." Now, I'm not a moron. I've seen the smoking patio. I've also seen that it has a fence around it and security guards there. "You don't want me smoking on your patio." "Sir, we have a smoking patio right out there." (she says it this time like I didn't hear it the first time and emphasizes her point by pointing it out to me) I calmly repeat, "You don't want me smoking on your patio. Is there any way I can get back in?" Finally, she relents and tells me that if I tell her upon reentering that I like New England Clam Chowder, I won't have to pay the cover. I stagger across the street and find a beautiful corner to post up on and have a few tokes. I'm drunk though, and a few tokes quickly turns into about 80% of the joint. I'm getting ready to put it back in the case when a group of people turn the corner, smell the thing and I hear someone go, "Someone's smoking pot!!!" Let me just tell you fools. When you smell pot being smoked in a public area, whether you want some or not, yelling out the above isn't the greatest idea, for you or the fella smoking it. At any rate, they yell this, one of them asks me for a hit, which I reply to by handing him, to his great surprise, what's left of my joint. As I run back across the street I hear, "Dude, that dude gave me the whole thing!" I think to myself, "tonight, joints, tomorrow night, grammar." I cruise back into Impala, and here's Clam Chowder girl. As I walk up to her she says, "Cover is 10 dollars." Now what made that go up five dollars from the last time I went in? I want to laugh in her face, but instead I ask, "what if I told you I really like New England Clam Chowder?" to which she lets me in. I'm back inside for a while getting my bearings, and at this point, Sonya has used up the small reserves of Mike's dance moves, I've had another drink and Julian has taken to the floor to see what he can do. I convince Mike to come outside with me while I smoke my second joint. As we come back in, the bouncer goes, "were you smoking a joint?" I look at him real confused and say, "who? me?" and walk past him. At the door, the nice young lady looks at Mike and I and says, "Cover is 10." I look at her and say, "what if I told you that this guy really likes New England Clam Chowder?" Now she gets mad telling me that I wasn't supposed to let anyone else in with this secret code, and I'm like, chill woman, he was already in here. We get by, and now it's time for me to take on Sonya on the dance floor. At this point though, I'm in such a good mood, I'd dance with a rattle snake if it wanted to groove. The cab drops Mike, Julian and Sonya back at their place and then takes me to Christina's place, where I spend about 10 minutes, iPod on, dancing in the street, because that's just the type of place I'm in right now. Actually, I find myself dancing to my iPod in public a lot lately...the other day I spent about 15 minutes walking down a sidewalk in the city dancing from square to square. People look at me like I'm out of my mind, but what can I say? Happiness abounds. Saturday it's a wonderful life at Nini's, as I mention to Jonathan that the cajun chicken wasn't quite spicy and he makes up for it by paying for my meal. Considering Charles had the same thing it's too bad he didn't mention it too. Saturday night we head out to some place in the Mission. We won't get into Julian's alter ego Rex (as in T-Rex, ready to destroy anything in his path), but let's just say that Rex had fun chucking a few things around, including a christmas tree which he almost threw into a car. I wish I had something cool to say about Sunday, but my life experiences have made Sunday suck. I was lucky to get to sleep in a bit and see the second half of the Giants v. Eagles game. Ready to get that money tomorrow at close of escrow. See y'all next time.

Roses and Red Bull Vodkas

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

Roses and Red Bull Vodkas Current mood: optimistic People! People of the sun! Hello! It's been far too long, don't you think? What can I say though? The life that is the holiday season grabbed a hold of me, shook me around for a little bit like a rag doll and then hurled me back into the day to day. December 28th was Bewaro the Sombrero, the annual all day ultimate tournament in San Mateo. Unfortunately, I didn't get to play a full day of ultimate. Fortunately, that's because I had to leave the tournament to sign off on my first sale as a realtor. Now THAT'S some hot shit. I'll backtrack to early December when a couple walked into the office off the street looking for a realtor. I was on floor, met them, got them pre-approved through a lender, and then helped them write a contract for their first home. Anyone looking for their first home should definitely be getting in touch...every person's profile is different, but in the end, my clients didn't put any money down, got 100% financing and their first month's home payment paid for through escrow. Needless to say the fact that my Bewaro team didn't win the tournament didn't get me down all that much. Close of escrow is the 9th. Friday night was a drunk one. On Saturday morning, I woke up very confused. I didn't know where I was. A little worried that I might have gone home with someone I had just met, and who's name I certainly wouldn't remember, I move my head slightly to both side to glance out of the corner of my eye for bedmates....nope, all alone. I climb out of bed, creep to the door of the room, peek into the hallway and realize that I'm at Christina's apartment. Good job me. Saturday, I manage to be real productive...I get to Nini's with Charles, watch Clerks 2 and then get over to Haight to watch Baraka on a big screen. I'll tell you something, had I known that the popcorn would be organic, the butter non-fat and the screen more scratched up than my back after a night with a raccoon, I would have stayed at home, smoked a joint and watched it on my HD. Sunday though...Sunday's a different story all together. I get up early and head down to LA at about 10 am. The trip is uneventful, aside from me singing a Justin Timberlake song at the top of my lungs (c'mon, y'all know that I DO NOT sing Justin Timberlake songs, but what can I say? It was a bit catchy)...I get to USC at about 4 pm, giving me enough time to walk around for a bit before it got dark. You never realize how much you miss campus until you get back to it. I head from there out to Andy's place in Covina. Chica's there, the pad is sweet and I start drinking from the kegerator early and often because, hey, it's New Year's Eve. He tells me we're gonna head to his roommate's house for a party, which I find to be awesome. By the time I show up, the front door opens to reveal middle aged twins. I blink twice and realize that I was seeing two of one middle aged woman, and she happens to be Andy's roommate's mother. He did not prepare me for parents. I shake her hand, pause for about two seconds as I try to gather my wits about me and say, "Ma'am, your home is so festively decorated, it's beautiful." The look that radiates from her means that I could trash the place, throw up in her laundry machine and devirginize her 15 year old daughter, and she would still see me as the nice young man who recognized her decorating skills. The party is about what you'd expect....lots of booze, a standard countdown (where I'm the only loser not kissing someone, but then again, when I went down to a random party plastered I didn't exactly figure on being able to secure a kisser by midnight), and then the beautiful part of the evening.... About 1 or so, I start looking around and realize that Andy is gone. Gone too are the two ladies that he was talking to. I mean, he asked me to be his wingman, and then he disappears with both of them, not even offering me a way back to his place? I'm more confused than mad, and the evening ends well when the roommate's dad, no doubt in love with me because his wife is, graciously offers me a ride back to Andy's. At this point, 6 of Andy's friends realize that, hey, he ditched them too, and they all hitch back. I spend the rest of the night trying to concentrate on smoking pot, which is very unsuccessful due to how drunk I am, and watching three guys compete over the same beat chick. This girl had an amazing body, a troll face and was the center of attention simply because she was the only girl in the house. I pass out on the couch very glad that I'm not a part of that competition. Monday, I wake up, not confused or lost this time, just missing my legs. I literally, upon waking up, cannot feel my legs. I look down and see that Chica has decided to sleep on me and my legs are fully asleep. Fantastic. We get out to the Rose Bowl at about 11 am, and Andy has discovered that somehow, very magically, he ended up with two tickets to a tailgate party. The tickets cost 80 bucks, and as we spend two hours drinking and eating for free, we can see why someone might pay that. We, however, did not. Cruise into the game and find ourselves on the most beautiful 50 yard line seats I've ever had for a football game. It starts out nervous...the SC fans are scared of Michigan and the Michigan fans are going wild despite the fact that they only make up 15% of the stadium. When the half ends at 3-3, the stadium has this very strange anticipatory feeling to it. But as the Trojans start to play, the fans get into it, and suddenly the game is out of hand and Michigan fans can't do anything but stand there in shocked silence. By the time the game ends, most of the Michigan fans have crept out the backdoor and the field is washed in red. I won't get into the details of the car ride home, but lets just say that Chris Reich and I undergo the Chinese water torture treatment of all car rides. I've never had so much trouble staying awake behind the wheel, and frankly, it was so painful that ritual suicide seemed preferable at the time. Now, of course, it seems like a silly idea, but last night, it might have worked. So there you have it...back to the real world. Back to 2007. Wait, I mean back to the future, or what's left of it at any rate. Welcome to the year of the secret agent...if you see me, be sure not to blow my cover, cause it's deep.

Birthday Week

Thursday, December 21, 2006

Birthday Week Current mood: drunk So it all starts on Sunday for me with the country club holiday buffet...always good eats. On Monday, the family takes me out to BJs, which I always love, and I get the standard pizookie, of course. Tuesday night, I manage to play the absolute worst game of ultimate in my life. I blame the double strength brownie I ate before the game. I think my head didn't come back to earth until about 8pm. Then, the real fun begins. Wednesday's the actual day, and I kick it off with some outstanding gifts, including some home made cookies given to me by Rhea of the office. I get off early, finish the mixes (if you don't know, ask), and head up to the city for some mayhem. I get started at about 630 playing beirut with Jessie, Mike and Julian. This goes on until about 8 pm at which point Charles, Albert and Chris show up. We manage to get Tyler and his crew to join us, and once Dawson, Kevin and Ferrer show up, everyone shows up and Cella's place gets real crowded real quick. Snyder thinks Brigid looks like Cuthbert in the Girl Next Door. Is she flattered? Hell no! She says, "yea, I've heard that," in her most nonchalant attitude. Aliza and I manage to get fucking waxed when we get on the table, 5 to 1. I think it was the Alize that Damie brought me that finished me off. When we head to Bar None to meet up with the rest of the crew (Morty, JK, Vic, etc, etc), I can not see straight. Nor do I know what time it is. Nor do I care. We get to the bar at around 11:30, and between the 20-30 of us, including Alan who has showed up after his final, we bring the party to the bar. I manage to be so drunk that I actually forget to play beirut, which was the whole point of going to this particular bar. But other people play, and I'm told it was fun. I do remember one person (Hilary Harbind maybe?) continually looking at me and saying "Birthday Boy!" but I didn't have any real good answer for her. I hate to cut this blog short, but really, that's about the extent of my memory of the night. I made a vague promise to Cathy to come over after the bar and say hi on my way home, but I manage to forget that too. Jessie's got the DD covered and I pass out at home, in my own bed, grateful that my wallet and all pertinent appendages are still attached to my body. Thanks go to everyone that made it out last night. While the end of the night gets a little hazy, I can say definitively that it was one of the better birthday celebrations I've had. I didn't throw up, the pictures Jessie took were great and what I do remember was a blast and a half. Sorry that this blog sucked so bad, but I think I'm still partially drunk and the screen in front of me is a little hazy. Oh well.

The King of a Thousand Sunshines

Tuesday, December 19, 2006

The King of a Thousand Sunshines Current mood: hyper Ok, so the title doesn't really make sense, and it has absolutely nothing to do with this blog, but I liked it, so deal. Where'd I leave off? Well, I don't think I talked about Nick's birthday party. So I guess he can be the king. He decides that for his 18th birthday he wants to hit a strip club, so my Dad and I agree to oblige. Now, I have a strong dislike of strip clubs. Not because I think the girls are being exploited (they choose this job and get compensated better than I do for mine), and not because of my philosophical roots in feminism (I don't view stripping as empowering, but for the above mentioned reasons I don't necessarily see it as evil. No, my dislike is much more personal...I just don't think they're fun. They make me feel sleezy, and I really don't see much point in throwing money away when I'd much rather have the company of a girl who's there because she likes me and wants to be, not because I'm paying her. I've been to two strip clubs in my life, both with a significant other, and let me tell you, this one was not like either of the other two. We head to Mitchell Bros. on O'Farrell. Be warned. This place is not a strip club. It's more like a borderline sex club. You walk in and there's the standard stage with poles and the rotating ladies. But then there's several other rooms...there's the "Ultra Room" where booths surround an area where two girls hook up. Then there's the "Green Room" where a table pops up from the center of the floor and two girls put on a show there. Finally, there's a movie theatre and another room with small booths. All the girls are more than willing to tell you about the rooms they have in back with lube, condoms and other goodies. Now, understand that Nick doesn't smoke all that much. Not only did I smoke him out, but I fed him a double strength club brownie to top it off, and by the time we get through the door (amazingly, we don't get carded and he's actually two days away from his birthday), I can't even see his eyes because they're almost shut. The first thing Dad does is order him a lap dance to break the ice (he's obviously a bit intimidated)...the girl is fine (obviously, they pretty much all were), and afterwards, he's a different person. All of a sudden, he keeps disappearing for more lap dances! By the end of the night, my Dad and I are standing in back trying to fend off the girls (if you're even moderately ok looking, and look like you have some cash, they flock)....I'm the primary target, but then they look to Dad for the bucks. We keep the wallet close. Anyways, we're back there, turning down these ladies for lap dances, and Nick looks like he was born in a strip club, sitting up in the front row, non-chalantly throwing dollar bills up on stage. I think it goes down as the best birthday he's ever had. I leave there and head over to Brigid and Christina's Xmas party. You never saw two such gorgeous hostesses. Brigid is wearing a tight strapless and some festive red stockings (which weren't my cup of tea, but she certainly looked cute in them), and Christina almost knocked me onto the floor when I walked in and saw her in a tight, ruffled red dress. My glands start working overtime and I almost drool all over the floor. They've got a good array of people there...mostly Brigid's co-workers, but also Christina's manager who I've heard more about than the Pope. She's hot, and the drunk married guy that spends all night trying to take her home knows it. They're serving, of course, the famous homemade guacamole and salsa, with various cheese pate spreads and other munchable goodies. Brigid's mom is a sweetie. She sits there, quietly watching her daughter get drunk and petting the dog. I think she's shocked when I introduce myself to her. Then we meet her dad, a retired cop, and I"m thankful that as per request, I haven't smoked anything, cause those guys can smell it a mile away. The party dies down, the drunk married guy leaves Kristin alone, and I sprint back to my car in sub zero conditions at about 4:30 am. So that was the weekend, the 18th birthday party and a stellar Christmas party. I can't decide who had more fun...Nick, who got his first taste of real women and adult life (or maybe as close as he'll ever get to being an adult!), me, who got to spend a little time on the couch after the party with the lady in red, or Brigid, but we won't talk about that! Stay tuned...I'm in the midst of celebrating a birthday week, so there's plenty more to come.

Sunshine and Shit

Monday, December 04, 2006

Sunshine and Shit Current mood: rejuvenated Left last Friday morning to take 5 of the cross country girls down to Los Angeles for the Foot Locker Western Regionals held at Mt. SAC by Ontario. This is an annual event, occuring after the State Championships that can be entered by anyone. We took down our three graduating seniors and our two fastest sophomores to compete. Started with me waking up, hung over (thanks Derek/Charles), unpacked and needing to get to BART in 30 minutes. I'm so hung over (and high) by the time I leave my aparment that it takes me a good five minutes to remember whether or not I managed to take a shower (I did)...I get to BART and take it to Oakland. I get to the airport, dying of thirst and hunger, and before meeting the team by the gate, my 20 dollar bottle of hair gel gets taken from me by security. A little word here on the TSA.....what a joke! Ok, so we have this threat of explosive liquids or gels being taken onto planes. So, they ban all things over a certain oz. size and make you carry it in a small plastic bag. I gotta wonder...when they look into the bag and see a bunch of random ass containers, that look just like any other container, how do they know what's actually in there? And why do you take the toothpaste container of a 60 year old woman? And what's to stop a terrorist from using multiple, legally sized containers? The whole thing is ridiculous and really, doesn't make me feel any safer whatsoever. I get through security and they ask if my bag is mine and if they can check it. Keep in mind right now that in my lap top case I have a pot brownie with at least 2gs in it. The screener pulls out my hair gel and scrutinizes it. Looks at the front, looks at the back, and then he holds it up to me, very suspiciously and says, "What's this?" HELLLOOO! You just got down spending 2 minutes reading it. "Um, my hair gel." I offer him my head so he can smell that what's in the bottle is what's in my hair. He doesn't sniff. "I'm gonna have to take that from you, it's too large." So they jack my hair gel. That was a great expenditure of tax payer dollars AND TSA time. I'm sure that while they were taking my green tea hair gel, there was at least one terrorist, somewhere in the world, getting on a plane with a knife or something else. The plane flight is uneventful, and when we touch down, we rent the team car that shall be known for the rest of the trip as Fredo. At some point, the car ceases to be Fredo and I become Fredo, leaving our reservations everywhere under that name, to the laughing delight of the girls and very strange looks from hostesses. I get asked three times, "how do you spell that?" The spelling varies from restaurant to restaurant. We take them to register for the race and then have them do a little mini practice and run the course. After that, we get to the hotel, check in and head out to dinner at the Macaroni Grill. While there, I almost give myself an instant heart attack by ordering a Pesto pasta with bacon, tomatoes and mozzarella. I can feel grease congeal in my throat and my heart struggles through the rest of the evening. We tell them it's my birthday and one of the waitresses sings happy birthday to me in Italian. As she does so, I look deeply into her eyes throughout the entire song. She blushes, her voice cracks and she barely finishes. As we leave the restaurant, the girls tell me that she was talking about me with another hostess. "Go back and get her number Coach." "Why, so I can fly to LA for a date? No thanks." We go to see Happy Feet. Friggin' hilarious. I mean, if it's not enough to watch penguins tap dance for an hour and a half, hearing four of them talk in Spanish accents is even better. Our group was not only the oldest in the theatre, but the one group that didn't stop laughing the entire time. Best line of the movie, "They are calling for something.......ME!"...most repeated line of the movie for the rest of the weekend..."Raaaamooon!" After the movie, it's bedtime for the girls, and Andy picks me up to cruise West Covina. For the first time in three years I get to see Chica!!! For those of you that don't know, Chica was my dog in LA. We got her sophomore year as a puppy and raised her. When we graduated, she stayed with Andy. She is the sweetest dog you could ever hope for, a beautiful tan pitbull. When Andy opens the door, she comes running, and for about five seconds I'm afraid. Here comes this beast. You see, when I left SC, Chica was a slightly heavy lap dog, probably about a foot or so off the ground and about 30 lbs. Now, she's a fully developed pit bull, about two and a half feet tall (if not more), and weighing closer to 70lbs. She's so happy to see me she almost knocks me over. I told Andy she should no longer go by Chica, instead she should be called Senorita. So then we have two options (after smoking of course)....we can go meet his friends at a bar, or we can go get a bite to eat and a beer. I'm all for the going out thing, but then when he finds out that all his friends are at this dive called the Rendezvous, he tells me there's no way we're going there. I ask for BJs and a pizookie, but he goes, no, we're going to Hooters. Now, I've never been to Hooters before. For those of you that know my politics, that kind of (in my mind) female degradation isn't something I want to financially support. On the other hand, as Andy likes to point out so often, as with stripping, they get paid well and do have the choice to do it. Now, these arguments don't make me feel any better personally, but he does have a point. So he finds out I've never been and takes me out there. Yea, it's LA, so of course the girls are gorgeous, but I find out why when I order buffalo strips and get five very hard and almost tasteless pieces of what could actually be cat meat. We have a pitcher, catch up and he drops me back at the hotel. Next morning, we have to get up at 6 am to be at the race on time for warm ups. Of all the times to easily deal with high school girls, anytime before 8 am usually works best. They're all tired and groggy. After the race, and they've showered, it's a different story. We deal with 5 delirious and energetic high schoolers by taking them to the mall. First, we all eat at Red Robin, and then the girls go out exploring. And here's where the weekend turns to shit. I have to sit in utter disbelief as USC loses to UCLA, and also loses a chance at the National Championship game. I have a lot to say on this one... 1) UCLA played one heck of a football game. They played with very few mistakes, lots of intensity, and an incredible game plan on the part of their defensive coordinator. No one can take that away from them, and my points below do not seek to minimalize the type of football game they played. 2) USC did not adapt well to (1) above. They failed to come out aggressively and didn't really look at all like the USC I've been watching most of the season until the final drive of the game. They looked slow, responded poorly (especially to the rushing of the Bruins quarterback), and never really looked like they had a strong desire to win the game until it was too late. 3) Despite 1 and 2 above, USC made some incredibly horrendous unforced errors throughout the game that continued to give UCLA opportunites, momentum and faith that they could win. No matter how good of a football team you are, if you spend a good portion of the game creating penalties, long yardage 3rd downs and turnovers, you're not going to win. 4) In the end, even though I think if you have these two teams play 10 games in a row, USC will win at least 8 of them (one UCLA grad I talked to today disagreed with me and said that if they played 10 times, USC would win ten times and that the Bruins were extremely lucky to do as well as they did, but as we can tell from Saturday, that's not true), it doesn't matter that they would win 8/10. They didn't win this one. This is the one that mattered. 5) USC finished the season 10-2, Pac-10 Champions, going to the Rose Bowl to play Michigan, an 11-1 team. UCLA finishes the season 7-5, champions of nothing, playing the Emerald Bowl against Florida State, a 6-6 team. I think I'll take the USC side of that any day. 6) When USC lost, it boosted morale in Westwood. This is understandable. However, the entire Pac-10 lost out, the Bruins included. Had USC gotten to the national championship game, not only would it have given the Pac-10 more national recognition (aren't you tired of the Big 10 getting all the credit?) but each school in the Pac-10 would have received 1.5 million dollars to go to scholarship programs. USC needs it, Cal needs it, Stanford needs it, UCLA needs it, they all need it, and now none of them have it. But I know UCLA students would gladly forfeit 1.5 million to watch a 7-5 team beat USC, so that's neither here nor there, but overall, disappointing for the conference. So those are my thoughts on the game. I think UCLA played a very solid game in conjunction with a poor game by SC, but you put those two teams together again and USC will win the vast majority. But hey, that doesn't matter right? I'm the first to admit that what mattered was the game on Saturday, and they didn't win that one. Better luck next year. So after that, we fly back to Oakland, I cruise up to the city and spend some time with what is quickly becoming my new favorite group of people...Christina, Aliza, Tamara, two awesome aussies named Gordon and Andrew and a new introduction to Molly. She's pretty cool. We hit up Delirium in the Mission (I can't say exactly how much I enjoy the feeling of the Mission as opposed to the Marina, but it's pretty substantial)...I gotta say I'm thankful to Christina...it took a lot of courage to introduce me to her friends, but I'm so glad she did because I think I found a new group of people that are great to be around and fun to party with. Big week this week with a black tie event friday, two parties over the weekend, and my birthday soon approaching. But I gotta run....I think I hear the masses....they're waiting anxiously, cheering for something..........me!

4 Days of Thanksgiving

Monday, November 27, 2006

4 Days of Thanksgiving Current mood: full So wow, do I have a lot to be thankful for! I have so much to be thankful for that last week, I not only had one amazing Thanksgiving dinner, I had four! And a birthday dinner for my sister to top it off. Here's the breakdown of one of the best food weeks ever.... Night: Tuesday Location: 18th and Noe, San Francisco Hosts: Tamara/Aliza Company: Tamara, Alize, Christina, Carolina, Kat-tastic, Zena, Tiffany, Carly, Jackie, Bryona, myself +6-8 others (I can't remember 14 new names all in the same evening!) Chef: Chef Sexy Menu: Turkey, homemade stuffing, carrot mashers, mashed potatoes, gravy, orange-cranberry sauce, salad w/lettuce, candied walnuts, feta cheese. Night: Wednesday Location: 617 Marseille, Half Moon Bay Hosts: Brett and Kathleen Company: Dad, Kathleen, Nick, Kelsey, me. Chef: Dad of course! Menu: Butternut squash soup w/crab meat, potato casserole w/gargonzola cheese, steak. Night: Thursday Location: 2150 St. Andrews, Half Moon Bay Hosts: Patrick and Mom Company: Mom, Patrick, Kelsey, Grandma, Grandpa, Aunt Sue, Emily, Sean, myself. Chef: Patrick, Mom Menu: Turkey, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, ham rolls, carmelized brie, green beans, stuffing, ice cream, pumpkin pie. Night: Friday Location: 626 Occidental, San Mateo Hosts: The Feinns Company: Phillip, Cameron, Joe, Sandy, Sandie, Patrick, Jessie, Charles, Derek P., Emily, Sean, Kelsey, myself Chef: Cameron and Phillip Menu: Crab, guacamole (appetizers), Butternut squash soup, baked potatoes, prime rib, pumpkin pie, chocolate pecan pie. Night: Saturday Location: House of Prime Rib, Van Ness, San Francisco Hosts: Patrick and Mom Company: Patrick, Mom, Emily, Sean, Kelsey, Jessie, myself (Happy Birthday Emily!!) Chef: House of Prime Rib of course! Menu: salad, yorkshire pudding, creamed spinach, mashed potatoes, prime rib. Now if that's not a week of eating to be thankful for, I don't know what is! Thank you to all the hosts and chefs that made my Thanksgiving not a day but a week!

12 Hours of Drinking

Monday, November 20, 2006

12 Hours of Drinking Current mood: drunk That's right. You read that correctly. I'm going to tell you about the day that I almost died. Ok. That's an exaggeration, surely. But I don't know that I've ever been through a day that felt longer. Let me first tell you about my wingman in this endeavor. Derek is a good soul. He's a decent sort of person. He's also single by circumstance and therefore an excellent addition to any drunken outing. When I pick him up at about 1:30 on Saturday, I tell him that we're not only going to play Pub Golf for Alli's birthday, but that we need to keep ourselves coherent and awake enough to make it to Bubble Lounge for Katie Buckstein's birthday afterwards. We agree that this will require food at various points, water and a healthy amount of shit talking each other to stay on track. We begin at 2. I earn the nickname Dust for being swept in 5 straight games of Beirut by Derek (let's not forget, he owns a table!)...Those beers help, as I'm still reeling from the night before and the mind erasers that totalled me then. By the time we make it to the first bar, Bar None, I'm starting to feel my normal self again. For those of you who don't know about golf, it goes like this....you pick a certain number of bars and create a par drink amount for each. On this particular course, 2 drinks was par for every bar. You mark on your scorecard the number of drinks you have at each place, and if you have more than 2, that's worth a stroke, more than 3 another stroke, etc. The person who ends with the most drinks dies. Er, wins. When we cruise in, you can tell who's golfing. You've never seen so many people wearing hats, plaid, knee socks and putting gloves in your entire life. Actually, I'm full of lies today...how about saying that you've never seen so much of the above when not on an actual golf course? Pitchers of beer are on the order, and imagine my surprise when I'm confronted by two guys who know me as "Adam, Kelsey's brother from Half Moon Bay." Definitely not what I'm expecting to hear in the marina. Now, we got there late, which means that we have only a certain amount of time to catch up before the referree blows the whistle and it's time to move on. I start chugging beer. For those of you that know my predicament, and the fact that I still don't physically know how to make myself burp, this can become a problem. But the whistle blows and on the walk to the door, I kill the second beer for the hole, walk outside into the light of day (even when you know it's day time, walking out of a bar and being hit with sunlight is still a bit disconcerting) and spend the next two blocks fighting the need to throw up. Derek tries to talk to me. Sean tries to talk to me. Julian tries to talk to me. The most I get out is a grimace, a very pained expression, and I manage to spit bile onto the sidewalk. I do this for three blocks, and then, amazingly, and thankfully, the feeling passes. I bounce up and down for a minute in celebration, and find myself dumped with the rest of the golfers into City Tavern. It's bad when bartenders know you. It's even worse when they take it upon themselves to make you more drunk. This is what happens to us throughout the USC v. Cal game. Mind erasers, beer, shots, they keep coming, and our group grows steadily less manageable. The game's on and the dichotomy between the SC and the Cal fans in the bar grows. Derek feeds me water. It's time to eat, but I can't leave the football game, so I stand outside and do only the second dumbest thing I could do, right there behind drinking more....I smoke a joint. Sure, it tastes good, and almost rights the ship for me, and then I realize that it's made me fucking high and I'm in a lot of trouble because there's no way I can finish golfing now. Derek returns from KFC/Taco Bell and hands me some sort of chicken wrap. I don't bother to go back in the bar, instead opting for the always popular street eat. At this point, the game ends with SC asserting their rightful place at the top of the Pac10 food chain, the whistle blows and it's time to go to KTs. We make it across the street where the atmosphere is much more dancy. The group, hearing the music and sensing new blood, gets rowdy. It's at this point that we lose Julian....in a bid to make him the undisputed golf champion, he takes several shots to cement his victory. He earns the medal and wears it around his neck for the rest of the evening, which for him, ends up being short. He takes us to some place called Andole's, which I couldn't find right now if you dropped me off in the Marina with an address and a map, to meet up with Brigid and Christina. We're drunk, we've been smoking, and Brigid and Christina immediately hate all three of us. I decide a long island would be a great idea, and then have a hard time understanding why a guy standing in front of a full bar says that they can't make long islands. I'm a little confused, so Derek gets us Coronas to go with the steak quesadillas. Julian gets watermelon juice, which he doesn't really get the chance to enjoy because he's in the bathroom throwing up the victory shots he put down at KTs. Brigid and Christina leave us without a goodbye. I guess at that point we either don't deserve it or they figure it's a waste of their time cause we won't remember it anyways. And now, comes the push. At this point, we're working up to about 9 o'clock and it's gut check time. Either we come up with the final move to Bubble Lounge, or we end the night as dead weight on the couch. We get to Julian's, and he's in bed and asleep before I make it to the bathroom. At this point, Derek and I rally. It's amazing. We get a game of Beirut going and by the time Charles picks us up, the second wind is upon us and we're ready. We get to Bubble Lounge as by far the drunkest people in the room. I don't remember a whole lot other than smoking a joint on their smoking patio, talking to many people (I remember the people, but not the conversations), and being flirted with by Katie's mom. I'm told the next day by Charles that I pretty much sat down in Jess Goldman's lap, continued telling people, "fuck you, pay me," and that the only consolation prize for me was that Derek was more drunk than I was. Honestly, Bubble Lounge is like Andole's for me...I couldn't find it again if you paid me. By the time Charles drops me back off at Julian's, it's all I can do to get back on the couch, and it's been just shy of 12 hours since Derek and I started the first game of Beirut. Waking up on Sunday, drinking water was the best feeling ever, simply because it was a beverage that didn't have any alcohol content. Now to prepare for Thanksgiving weekend and a football game. Cheers all.

Visualize Vivid Verbplay in My Vortex

Friday, November 17, 2006

Visualize Vivid Verbplay in my Vortex Current mood: high That's right, that's everyone's funkiest homosapien, Mr. Del. Last night, Alan, Derek, Victor, Sutton and myself had the pleasure of visiting the Fillmore to see the most legendary of the Hiero crew come to spit. Evening starts when we pick up Sutton and his bag of goodies way up on Market. Cruise to Vic's place where I can tell it's gonna be an early night...he's already on the couch two blunts deep, lights dimmed, watching some history channel bullshit. We get him to raise the lights (ruining the romance for him), turn on some music and I find a basketball game on tv. Sutton realizes he still doesn't have a ticket, so we pile out and head to the show, at which point I finish the 40 I was working on. Mickey's does me in once more. We get to the show and Sutton gets his ticket right there, no sell out crowd here. Which is actually disappointing, because as we go inside to the sounds of Motion Man (think Pablito's Way) the place is pretty empty and the crowd is almost all white. Definitely not what I was expecting. Motion Man finishes up and out comes some chick I hadn't heard of before...Song 1. She's dope. Real fast over the beats, coherent, solid. She gives way to Mike Realm who rips off a fantastic set on the 1s and 2s, using the same video scratching technique employed by Cut Chemist (see my blog "When Chemistry Cuts" for a description), using clips from various movies including the "O Face" scene from Office Space. And then comes the man. Decked out in a pair of tie up slipper type shoes, white pants, a light lime green polo shirt and a sick fedora style hat that's a white base with spiraling lines of black, green and white. Very sick. He comes out much less inebriated than I had anticipated. In fact, I'd almost say at this point in the evening that he's actually the closest to sober that I've ever seen him. Don't get me wrong, this changes throughout the course of the show, but for an opening song, I hadn't seen him that lucid in a bit. He comes out and rips a set. It's got solid freestyles throughout, and some old and new favorites. He starts it off with the perennial classic At the Helm off Third Eye Vision. When this ends he goes straight into the Virus cut off the Deltron cd which he parlays into the heavy violin sound of my all time favorite Del song, Catch a Bad One. But the hits don't stop there. Phoney Franchise is next, and at this point, the blunts and Heinekens have come out and I start to get the feeling that our time left with Mr. Sapien is dwindling with every puff or sip. Powers That Be comes next (with A Plus backing him) and then they go into the Souls song Make Your Mind Up which they follow with a new APlus song off his new album. At this point, Del goes into the usual selling of product by announcing the his new album (long awaited, I might add) is dropping soon and will be called 11th Hour. Now, the last two times I've seen Hiero, he's been talking about this same album, so I have to assume a) not only will it be out soonish, but b) if Del's taking this long to work on it, it oughta be pretty fucking hot. Then they play a few I hadn't heard before, We are the Funky Homo Sapiens, and some song called Thank You bookend the popular Mr. Dobalina. At this point, we're into the encore part of the show, and Del's really letting loose on the freestyles, my guess is because he's tossed. His hat comes down lower over his eyes, his cadence quicker and a bit more slurred, and he's paying less attention to moving the show along and more to spitting. He freestyles over the beat from Dead Prez's Bigger Than Hip Hop and then goes into another new song called Foot Down. He flows one more time before breaking out my Dad's favorite, If You Must. Personally, I hate that song. Anyone who has breath so bad it melts ice cream is not something I want to hear about. Finally, he closes out the set with a bang. You Never Knew and the Gorillaz' Clint Eastwood. Fucking sick. We get another half hour of show after that, but it's just the DJ and Del partying with the audience...at that point, he's trashed and done rapping. But, he was and continues to be, Del the Funky Homosapien.

The Weekender Chico, and Everything In It

Monday, November 06, 2006

The Weekender Chico, and Everything In It Current mood: okay You always know it's gonna be a good weekend when USC students bombard San Francisco to bring their own special brand of mayhem with them to play Stanford. However, it's an even different sort of weekend when UCLA students need to come up here to watch their team get kicked around by Cal as well. My weekend starts Friday night. Julia Yates, Anthony Jenkins and myself go out dancing at this place called Mr. Smith's. Hadn't been there before, but what a weird layout. VIP on the top floor, bar on the entry floor and the dance floor in the basement? It kinda fragmented the entire thing, split up the crowd and left the dance floor basically for the three of us plus a few other randoms. As Julia is my DD for the evening, I make ample use by getting trashed. I don't really remember being dropped off at home, but wake up on Saturday morning feeling suprisingly well. I immediately throw this good feeling in the garbage can by meeting up with the 2801 Ellendale crew at the Stanford v. USC game where there are two kegs and vicious games of flip cup going on. Our team mounts up for the first game, and we get slaughtered by the women's soccer team we all know and love. They talk shit. Then they talk more shit. Then the team after us waxes them, giving us another chance on the table. It was not a chance we were about to throw away. We beat that team up. Then the girls get back on the table, we take them out too. Long story short, we win 5 games of flip cup in a row, an unprecedented showing. We wander to the game where we watch USC kick the living shit out of Stanford 42-0. I leave the game content, a little faded, and ready for Saturday night. (Now, there's a little bitterness coming here, so if that makes you uncomfortable, or you just don't want to read it, skip ahead to the **** at the end of the section....If you want to know how I'm really feeling, read on.) ******************************************* Now, I've gone to great lengths to stay positive, stay happy, and stay unaffected following my break up. I've also tried very hard to stay as un-bitter as humanly possible, and keep the majority of my thoughts and feelings on the subject (and her), especially the negative ones, to myself. I will only say here that for two and a half years of that relationship, I tried everything I could think of to get her to go and experience a football game with me. Free tickets, requests, begging, bribing, everything. Never worked. So it got under my collar upon returning home to find out that on this weekend, not only did she go to a football game, but she didn't even go to her own football game in Berkeley. No, she went to the SC game. Not only did I want to throw my computer off the balcony, but I seriously considered about 100 other things that I could do that would not only have been stupid, but extremely unproductive as well. I find it only stupid and retarded on my part that I let stuff like this get to me. And really, in the end, I know it only hurts me, which makes it even more stupid. I'm working on that, but haven't completely found the ground I need to stand on yet. Enough of that. I'm done. *********************************************** I cruise up with Charles to Mike and Julian's, where Mike has once again been castrated (and probably for good purpose) by Sonya, and Julian, Charles, Derek and myself are ready to go out. We hit City Tavern, where I must say, Julian's connections work wonders. We skip the line at the door, get to the bar quick and get some strong ass drinks. Charles then spends the evening attempting to repay me for hazing him on Halloween by ordering me a Mind Eraser and telling me after I've pounded it and feel like vomiting on his shirt that it was in fact a double. These are the types of friends I have. And you know what? I wouldn't have it any other way. He drives us home, drops us off and after some fun, I pass out. Hard. I wake up and remember, shit, it's 49ers game day!!!! I eat a special treat from the club, meet up with my grandparents and Patrick (let me tell you, most non-exciting tailgate ever, but it made the grandparents happy)...we have some wine, eat some lox and lobster. I can't tell you how amusing to me the difference between the SC tailgate and the 49er tailgate was. One was keg beer, flip cup and some chips if you were lucky, the second was luxury box style. And, the Niners won!!!! 9-3. Amazing. Not like Sunday night needs any treatment here...y'all know what goes down then. New Wire, new Dexter, and then I passed out before I could finish Desperate Housewives. The world, chico, and everything in it.

Can I Get a Bullet with That Pretzel?

Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Can I Get a Bullet with that Pretzel? Current mood: jubilant The evening starts when I invite Nick, my 17 (almost 18) year old step brother to join Cella, Julian, Charles and I for Halloween in the city. Jordan Harbind meets us as we're getting ready. Nick hasn't partied up there before, and Castro seems like an excellent introduction. I stop by the club on my way to King street and get introduced to what the guys there call racing the cheetah. I've been high in my life. But racing the cheetah? Yea, don't try it unless you want to be stuck in the clouds for a few hours. It's a bong load that has some weed on the bottom (they used ATF), bubble hash on top of that, topped off with Trainwreck keefe. Now multiply that by two monster rips, and you see how my evening kicked off. We get to 255 King and get into several heated games of Beirut. Believe it or not, Charles and I spend 4 or 5 games mopping the floor with various competitors, which ends up turning Julian into a rageaholic. Once our liquid blankets are in place, and our costumes fitted (imagine 5 backpack wearing, bible toting Mormons), we head out, grabbing a cab and getting dropped off outside one of the pedestrian zones at the Castro. We walk in and no one is impressed. I tell them to wait for it. "Dude, there's no one here" Hello, we're not even on Market yet! And then it hits, the throngs. On a quick sidenote...I haven't seen a costume draw as much attention as the Mormon costume. Now, if you had one or even two, it's easy to lose the costume in a crowd. But with 5 of us, we stand out to everyone walking past and get some of the following comments: "Mormons!!!! Yaaaaay Mormons!!!!" - hot chick ..1 "Oh wow, what an awesome costume. Go Mormons!!!" - hot chick ..2 "Fucking Mormons suck!" - meathead ..1 "I'm gonna kick your religious ass" - meathead ..2 "If you guys aren't Mormon, that costume is soooo wrong." - girl in the street and finally, my favorite, from about 1 out of every 4 people we ran into..... "Are you guys really Mormons?" The throng hits us and we start walking, looking for a little space, but mainly just sinking into the masses. I happen to love it. In any street carnival, fair, public mass of people, the feeling of anonymity that comes with the masses is always welcomed and embraced by me. At this point, Charles decides he needs to piss. I see a pretzel/churro stand. Excellent, a pretzel and a churro for 5 dollars. One combo, please. She hands me the pretzel, and as she does so, and I survey the scene for my fellow Mormons and revelers, and then the shots ring out. 4 or 5 of them, rapid, which I'm torn between thinking are real gun shots and perhaps fireworks? But they're loud, and about twenty feet from the pretzel stand I'm at, people scatter from what's obviously the epicenter of the shots. One girl comes out with blood on her face, to which Nick states, "shit, she's got blood on her face!" and one guy ends up on the ground with what appears to be a bullet in his leg. Meanwhile, as everyone is running around and I'm watching this, I think, "this is really stupid people. There's not gonna be MORE gunshots, and it's not like once you've heard them you can get out of the way. You're not faster than a speeding bullet, so stay where you are and don't get swept up in the pandemonium. People look at me like I'm nuts for standing and watching. I realize at this point that I've got the pretzel, which I've taken a few bites of and is rather bland, but there's no churro. And there's no pretzel lady to be seen. Literally, the gunshots rang out and she disappeared. I look around some more, generally upset that I don't get some cinnamon goodness to go with my bland ass pretzel and see her cowering behind the cart. At this point, me, caring man of the people that I am, looks down at her shaking behind her cart..."um, could I get that churro now?" The look of fear, bewilderment and downright astonishment on her face that I could even think of eating, let alone asking her to serve me at a time like this makes me feel a little funny for not being as scared as she is. But like I said, once you've heard the shots, you're not gonna dodge the bullets, so might as well stay in one place (that's what my mom told me to do when I got lost as a child). She shakily gets up and hands me the churro, looking at me with disgust for my selfish "feed me" attitude. Then, I figure, why not. "Excuse me, could I get some salt on this pretzel?" (honestly, when I ordered the pretzel, I didn't think I'd have to order salt extra.) She shakes her head at me, looks at me once more like I've fallen out of a tree and goes, "you already took a bite, I can't put salt on it now" and gives me two or three more shakes of the head. At this point, the place has started swarming with cops trying to contain the scene and figure out who shot who. It's probably a good time to leave, but Nick is with us, so where does one take an underage high school senior in the city? We decide that if ever there's a time to test our mettle and love at City Tavern, this here is the night. We cab it over to the Marina, thinking of ways to get Jordan's ID out to Nick. All of this becomes a moot issue when we find out that no one at City is carding and he walks in the front door. Of course, with all of us dressed as Mormons, he blends right in, and with Julian and I ordering the drinks, no one even thinks to look at him like he's too young. Nick, my stepbrother, let me introduce you to the Mind Eraser. Kahlua, Vodka, club soda, chugged through a straw. Well, apparently, after all this, Julian, who didn't join us in the Castro, and Mike have wandered outside and unbeknownst to any of us, almost gotten into a fight with some juiced up adrenaline freak wearing a shirt that says, "fuck you, pay me." And he's ready. Julian's ready. Mike's trying to avoid everything and I get to walk right into the middle and this guy starts screaming at me. Finally, his friends and our muted response get him to calm down a little. He says one more thing, and Nick, who has no idea what a street fight is really like with 20 something boozed up meatheads, starts talking back. This of course gets dumbass all riled up again and he starts really jawing with Nick. After yelling at him to shut the fuck up and get back, I finally get Nick to listen and we diffuse the situation. This guy probably would have mauled Nick and not thought twice about it, but for the rest of the evening I get to hear how Nick "would've kicked that fucker's ass," no matter how many times I explain to him that he would have been in a hospital. And then, that's that. Cab back to 255 King, I throw Charles and Nick in my car as Jordan is throwing up in Julian's bathroom (he also spent almost the entire time we were at City Tavern in the bathroom, alternating between standing up against the wall of the stall and throwing up), Jack in the Box after being turned away from In-N-Out, and home. Halloween. Castro. San Francisco. These are words that will live in infamy. Check back for pictures of the Mormon crew.